BY Adam Khoo : I read something today that got me reflecting about how I am living each day of my life. Bronnie Ware is a nurse who spent several years working with terminally ill patients, looking after them in the last three to 12 weeks of their lives. During that time, she became accustomed to hearing them reveal their biggest regrets.

These are the top 5 biggest regrets of people who were near death

1) I wish I had allowed myself to be happier
2) I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends
3) I wish I hadn't worked so hard
4) I wish I had the courage to express my feelings

5) I wish I had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me- This was the BIGGEST REGRET of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.

I am proud to say that I am living my life everyday without any of these regrets...expect the part of 'working very hard'. But then again, I really enjoy my work that it really isn't work to me. I love what I do so much that my work is really a play day everyday. How about you? Is there anything you feel you need to change about the way you are living your life?

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good to collect words from Adam Khoo. Will like to reflect on my own lives ... otherwise, I might have my biggest regrets in future. Whatever I am doing today ... tmr ... next week ... will it put values in my lives and people around me? Whatever I am doing ... I do not regret much in my lives, as I believe I just need to conitnue to learn to be a better person, a better human .. a better teacher, a better trader ... can we have it all?

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Have you ever had a big idea or dream - something you wanted so bad ... but you were too scared to make it happen, or maybe you didn't really believe it could? Think of how often you've had someone you looked up to or viewed as successful ' shoot one of your suggestions full of holes. Ideas and babies have a lot in common - they require a lot of nourishment to survive. A new idea, regardless of its size, may not be able to withstand a beating when you first give it birth." - Bob Proctor

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