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[转贴] 理财 | UTAR生的求学生涯心情告白 - Angel Poi Woon
今天看到网友在面子书上分享一位UTAR生的求学生涯心情告白，让我情绪五味杂陈。。只因为我在大学时期虽然不比主人翁生活来得拮据，但在花钱时不得不精打细的状况是一样的。
这是一位活在单亲家庭里的大姐，在为自己的未来打拼时，身负照顾弟弟妹妹的责任。
令人欣慰的是，主人翁及她妈妈都了解改变命运的其中一个方法就是小孩装备好自己的知识及技能，将来在社会的出路会广些，改变未来的几率大些。
为了这未来，主人翁牺牲了暂时的娱乐和社交(花钱来和因为成绩而杯葛人家这种所谓的朋友联系感情实在是没有必要。。。），在我看来是明智之举，请继续好好加油！
无论如何，请记得好好疏解在你内心会出现的任何不满或怨恨情绪，因为这些负面的情绪是有可能把你击垮的。
虽然一开始家庭生活就比别人坎坷，而这也是改变不了的事实，但你绝对也比人家多了一份生活上没有的体验，对你来日的人生规划一定有大大的帮助，所以抬起头认真地走下去是唯一最好的办法·～
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我CGPA 拿到4.0，我朋友就开始的boycott我，
说平时jio我去哪里唱K,我拒绝
平时jio我去看戏，我拒绝
平时jio我去shopping,我拒绝
平时jio我去吃KFC,我也拒绝
平时jio我去哪里玩，我不用多说，我拒绝
我在UTAR读书的生活，都是早上上课下午温习功课晚上睡觉
人家说大学生应该好好去享受大学生的生活，我却把时间花在我学业上面
因为我根本没有什么social life,朋友都爱笑我书呆子，
有些同course的同学，不了解我，甚至会去说我是非说我拿到那么高分全靠我和lecture上床用性爱去换我的分数，
我听了，自己沉默着偷偷哭
是啊，
我特地的去拒绝所有的应酬，
是因为我给不起15块的钱去吃KFC,
我给不起13块的钱去看戏，
我给不起23块的钱去唱K
我爸爸死了，在我14岁的时候，得到脑癌死了，家里的钱全部因为为了给爸爸的医药费全部都花光了，爸爸临终的时候交代，要我好好读书，上大学过后要我看着弟弟和妹妹，叫我不要哭，
一路以来最坚强的妈妈，爸爸走的那一时刻妈妈崩溃了，看着自己最心爱的人离开是一件很让人心痛的事，我身为大家姐，我要一直安抚我两个弟妹，一边的要安慰我妈妈，我爸爸走的那一刻，我心里很痛，
之 从爸爸离开后，妈妈为了我还有弟弟妹妹，早上的时候卖鱼蛋粉，中午的时候去别人家打扫，晚上的时候去倒啤酒，我以前因为是中午班，早上的时候就穿着学校制 度去档口帮我妈妈捧粉，到了12点就上学去，上学的时候总是给老师说我一身臭汗味，一身臭油味，但是我却经常保持沉默没有告诉老师我为什么一身臭味，同学 们总是避开我，班上的女同学都喜欢叫我臭尼姑，因为裙子都很长，加上一身臭味，就是因为我没有什么朋友，我总是喜欢把时间花在功课上面
放学过后，就去邻居家接弟弟妹妹回家，回到家就把妈妈煮好的饭弄热给我弟妹，妈妈那时候已经在kopi茶档倒酒，
有一次，妈妈11多就跑回家自己哭，我心疼妈妈就问到底发生了什么事？妈妈却说没有事，过后才从其他倒酒的阿姨说妈妈那天倒酒被吃豆腐，我也哭了，心疼妈妈为了我3姐弟妹而受委屈
就是我很少朋友的关系，我把精神全部focus在我学业上面，我spm拿到了8个A,以为自己可以申请到ptptn读大学，怎知道reject了我
妈妈为了我而去和亲戚借，还有每一个月都给我500块当做生活费，我房租180块，剩下的都是我吃的，电费，电话卡，还有留着emergency用的
我也很想好像一般的女生，穿到漂漂亮亮，买自己喜欢的东西，谈一场恋爱，去哪里玩
但是我不行，因为我知道妈妈赚钱很辛苦，
我努力去得到那么高分，是因为，我想改天得到好一点的工作，
可以有理由让妈妈不要在那么辛苦的做工，
你们父母双健，父母还在，
请问你会了解失去依靠的痛吗？
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She study hard, hopefully she can work smart in future. U give her future KWSK retire fund first later she pay back to you after work.
2016-09-01 17:01
I support you action and no need care about people said. Money should spend in the correct way.
2016-09-02 12:29
All the hardship that u undergo today would be the foundation of your great success in future.
2016-09-02 13:22
Keep going Angel.
We all have gone through down-trodden hardship. Only that I went through it earlier than you and at that time, things were still cheap and we had jungle products as food for many years.
Yes, I think you should write to KYY for some help.
Good Luck.
May God Bless you.
2016-09-02 14:11
Think positively, chance is given to those who work ward & know what they want.
Why cares how others' feel.
If they are friends, they won't look down at you.
If they are not friends, why want to bother them? They are no body.
2016-09-02 18:42
if you really got good result, like you said got CGPA 4.0 , SPM 8 As, there is no reason you can't get a scholarship. PTPTN is more likely a study loan, check and understand why you been rejected. Go seek help from MCA or apply finance assistant you could get from TAR or State gov. There must be a way out. I don't believe you will not get even 1 with your result. The important thing is you shall know when to ask for help, rather you keep quiet and think you must depends on yourself. Asking for help is not something you shall shame about. Just my advise.
2016-09-02 23:36
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