Hello to you all, my dear friends,
I am in a quandary, how to define a human being in my own perspective.....
A HATER CAN BE ANYONE.
I suspect he may have an opinion or two.
I'm a character. I accept been created creative. I have been myself all the while. And it is easy to turn an anonymous person to hate me. But sometimes it becomes worse. I receive legal threats, i have death threats, i have lost friends, even family over things i have written. I have lost respect in many that i still respect. Articles being written, and people hate me yet more.
A hater can be anyone. A family member, a friend, a teacher, a client or a random person you know on the internet. Masses who are friend forever can suddenly be hater. And the worse is they act nice in the sunlight.
MOST HATERS ARE AFRAID OF YOU.
Most hater has been invisible, anonymous, just trying to start out in your head, because their particular method of having a human connection. Simply there are rules how to deal with these type of haters.
THEY ARE COWARDS.
This is a bit of a cliche, but it is true. Behind any anger there is a flame. Whoever hates, it's also afraid of something. But it's simply worth nothing to generate attention to cowards. Its none of my business why someone thinks anything or something around me. But something is going on with the hater lives that is fetching up a fear. And they indulge the fear by having an anger towards you. By projecting their own fear onto yours. For a brief moment, they become a monster by hiding behind their fear.
RESISTANT IS FUTILE.
Nobody is ever changing their mind. Change is hard. Like quitting cigarettes is very laborious. Almost impossible for many people. Hating is even more addictive, so imagine how laborious is to change a persons mindset. Facts don't matter. Defending yourself, make it worse.
A WASTE OF A HATER LIFETIME.
That is a waste of a lifetime. That's ok also. Nobody is calling for the cowards have a fulfilling life. Its entirely their choice to squander their life. And since there are many people will hate you, let them have more opportunity to ruin their lives. Let them enjoy it.
LEARN WHILE THE HATERS RUINING THIER OWN LIFE.
As a hater begins to take his or her stabs, try using your understanding as above to learn more about yourself, improve more on your methods and if you can't learn a lot, you can learn a little. And knowing that they are ruining their own life for the rest of their life.
If you still can't learn a little, at least attempt to avoid getting sick.
THE MIND OF A WINNER.
And if you dont get nauseated, you try to be thankful. And move to the next thing you want to do. The next place where you will find love, creativity and fulfillment.
And let the hater hate themselves. Their fear causes hatred and fueling frustrations. Following, the haters will be lacking of accomplishment. Finally, they will manifest into self hatred. And on their way to their own self destruction.
My friends, i love haters, they fill me up all the while. That makes up my character until today. I have seen many digging their own graves. I can't help either. They are more willing to die being a hater.
TO MY HEROS.
Wish all my heroes, either he or she knows how to deal with those cowards in the future, and remember to witness their own downfall. If you are compassionate enough, avail them by turning over a helping hand before them. Before we lose them forever.......
Good night. ~~
P/s: if a person asks me why Malaysia is going backwards against its peers, I would say, the people are, and not the country. The nice Malaysian mentality. Prove me if i am wrong......
wishing to have both Christine Goh and Fam Jenny (bonus: connie) wkakakkaaa
TO MY HEROES
Wish all my heroes, either he or she knows how to deal with those cowards in the future, and remember to witness their own downfall. If you are compassionate enough, avail them by turning over a helping hand before them. Before we lose them forever.......
2014-08-20 01:58
thanks ayamtua......... u are the hero tooooooo.......
if have time go watch this movie ..... hows AMAZING BRAIN human .....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MVt32qoyhi0
2014-08-21 22:52
OptimusX
A hater can be anyone. A family member, a friend, a teacher, a client or a random person you know on the internet. Masses who are friend forever can suddenly be hater. And the worse is they act nice in the sunlight.
like.
i m surrounded by haters. wakakakaka.
2014-08-20 00:05