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A Friend In Need Is A Friend Indeed - Koon Yew Yin

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Publish date: Sun, 12 Dec 2021, 02:26 PM
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The Covid 19 pandemic is affecting everyone without exception. Many people lost their employments. Almost all the business men and investors have lost money. As a result, we all need friends to comfort us or give us a helping hand. 

Everyone has many friends from schools, colleges, work places etc. But you will be surprised to find that you have actually very few true fiends. Just ask your friend for a small loan or some financial assistance, if he gives it to you without any condition, he is truly your friend. But don’t be shocked if he turns you down. 

A friend is a person whom one likes a lot and who is not a part of one’s family. “A Friend in Need is a Friend Indeed” is a phrase that describes the most important characteristic of a true friend. Most noteworthy, the phrase means that a true friend is the one who helps someone at a time of need. Such a friend is certainly a precious asset in an individual’s life.

Importance of a Friend in Need

First of all, a friend in need helps one feel less lonely. Moreover, in this day and age people can feel easily feel detached and lonely. Consequently, this causes anxiety and depression to develop in a person. A helpful friend certainly eliminates feelings of loneliness. This is because such a friend reflects life back and all the things one has in common.

A friend in need is someone who improves and builds self-confidence in his friend. Most noteworthy, an individual’s number one friend is his friend in need. Furthermore, such a friend would tell how great he feels about you. Moreover, such a friend would tell you all your positive aspects. Consequently, this significantly increases an individual’s self-confidence.

A friend in need is someone who provides a reality check for you. Such a friend, besides telling positive things, is not afraid to explain an individual’s shortcomings. This certainly helps an individual in overcoming his weakness. Hence a true friend would pull you back down to Earth.

A friend in need is certainly a supporter of your dreams and aspirations. Furthermore, a true friend would always believe in you. Moreover, such a friend does not discourage you from your ambitions. Most noteworthy, such a friend believes in the efforts of his friend and supports him in every manner.

Loyalty is another important benefit of a friend in need. Such a friend is truly an unyielding friend. This true friend would stand by you in any situation or circumstance. Certainly, a friend in need is not a backstabber or the one who betrays.

How to Be a Friend in Need

First of all, you should express yourself as a safe place for your friend. Most noteworthy, present yourself as a trustworthy individual so that your friend can confide in you.

Being a careful listener is another notable characteristic of a friend in need. Moreover, you should carefully listen to each and every word your friend says. Most noteworthy, one must memorize what one’s friend says, especially if it’s something important.

In order to be a friend in need, one must show proper respect for their friend. Above all, one must respect and honour what one’s friend says or does. One must certainly not disrespect their friend’s point of view.

A true friend must provide non-judgemental perspectives. Therefore, you should help your friend to see all sides of each issue. A true friend must help one make use of logical decisions rather than emotional ones.

In conclusion, “A friend in need is a friend indeed” is a saying which describes a real friend. Furthermore, the true test of a friendship is during times of difficulties. Most noteworthy, the friend who offers genuine help during troublesome period passes this test. Such a friend is a resilient, firm and fierce friend.

 

 

 

 

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calvintaneng

Post removed.Why?

2021-12-12 18:20

hannahtai

Great piece. Let s enjoy our friends and vice versa.

2021-12-12 20:30

sensonic

MY FRIEND BORROWED 5K FROM ME AND SAID 3 MONTHS WILL RETURN TO ME BUT NOW 2 YEARS I STILL HAVENT HEARD ABOUT HIM. I GOOD TO HIM BUT HE NO GOOD TO ME. FRIENDS BETTER NO LOAN INVOLVED. ELSE GOOD FRIENDS ALSO AVOID YOU.

2021-12-12 21:53

calvintaneng

sensonic

not only friends
workers and and neighbours and all others also the same

do this

Next time if your friend want to borrow money say Rm5,000

Do this

tell him you are not lending him and no obligation to pay back

then think of your friendship with him

how much are you willing to give him (not lend)

if you think he is worth Rm300 or Rm1,000 just give it to him free

Since he has no obligation to pay you back he will still be your friend

if he is really a good friend he will be grateful and not take advantage of you

if not as the scout says

"Precious friends are like diamonds "

True friends are rare.

False friends are like autumn leaves settled everywhere

2021-12-12 23:09

sensonic

WELL SAID SIFU CALVIN...

2021-12-12 23:35

emsvsi

DEAR MR KOON YEW YIN,

ARE YOU IN NEED

2021-12-13 02:03

alan55

Neither a borrower nor a lender be...Shakespeare taught us this
I lent RM2k TO A BANKRUPT who was in need at that time, one month became a nightmare to get back my hard earned money. Once bitten, never try.

2021-12-13 09:24

TheGardener

My two cents, in real world "Relationship = Benefit" a cruel fact!

2021-12-14 02:36

andr

Mr Koon, u don't need a loan if you didn't over leveraged your greed.

and i disagree with you on your saying "if he gives it to you without any condition, he is truly your friend"

2021-12-14 15:39

amateurJR

Haha, uncle how many true and real friends u have? Have u ever betrayed your friends?

2021-12-14 16:48

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