Hello all my friends and readers,
Do you believe that honesty is important? Some might agree and one might say my article is a crab. Anyway, it's alright. The next thing will happen and so on, because I don't simply give out stuff for free.
Okay, I have a confession to make. I have been caring so far too much about offending people.
I don't care it anymore, but for today. Yes for today!
I can't take it anymore. It's stupid and it's not good for my well being. It has made me a punching bag. But worse than that, it has made me someone who stood in the middle, far too often, and not where I care to stand, for fear of alienating others No more. Not for today.
Today ladies and gentlemen, it's different.
We are talking about a cure. We are going to talk about what's necessary. We are going to talk about the truth. Do you wonder if someone is talking shit about you? Have you become conflict avoidance?
Well, it's time for you, aren't giving a (18+)
People are judging you right now.
Yes, it's happening right now. At this moment. Some people don't like you. And guess what? There is nothing you can do about it. No amount of coercion, toadying, or pandering to their interests will help. In fact the opposite is often true. The more you stand for something, the more they respect you, whether it's grudgingly or not.
What people truly respect is when you draw a line and say " you will not go further ". They may not like this behavior, but so what? These are, people don't like you anyway, why should you attempt to please people who don't care about you in the first place?
Embrace this my friend, for it is true freedom. The world is vast and you are small, and therefore you may do as you wish and cast your thoughts on those who dislike it to the side.
You don't need everyone to like you.
This stuff is crazy. I know, but it's crazy, but it's cool. You'll get used to it. Here's the next thing, not only do most people don't know that you exist, and some are judging you, but it totally doesn't matter even if they are. When people don't like you, nothing actually happens. The world doesn't end. You don't feel them breathing down your neck. In fact the more you ignore them, the more they become dying from stroke.
So, not giving a (18+) is actually a necessary precedent to create a good life for yourself. It can't happen without it. That's why you have to begin today.
Is your people that matters.
Ok, now that you have adjusted to the fact most people in the world are barely aware of your existence, and you are so conscious of the fact that those who don't like you are in the obscenely small minority and don't actually matter. Awesome, next you need to realize that the people who care about you, and no one else,. Are those you need to focus on.
These people are your heroes, they understand your quest and your cause. They make you feel good when you're around them, make you laugh and make, you can be just like yourself. They will make you at ease and relax. You've have shared things with them. They are important, focus on them instead.
Those who don't give a (18+) change the world. The rest never will.
If you dismissed the things that do not matter, if you remove those things from your mind and focus on what must be done; if you understand that your time is limited and decided to work it out now, only then you'll be able to get to the finish line.
Once you begin on this path, you start to discover that practically everyone is capable of understanding the " weird " things that you do. In fact, it makes you interesting and worth paying attention to. Further feeding into your plans in of world domination, if you have any.
But none of these fun can happen without you recognizing this is an act of powerful mind control which builds momentum and make you tough and strong.
Take back your self respect , do it today. Tell someone the truth.
IT DOESN'T (18+) MATTER.
P/s: Genius gets you no where, execution is. Trading is stressful, and with the crowds + those passerby, getting into heated arguments and talking shit, there are nothing really worth to prove it, relax, chill out and give yourself a break, focus on what is more important to you!
Like or no like me, is no concern to me. So long as i'm making money and not harm/wrong others. Don't hate people just because they're right.
2014-09-04 22:02
there are many reasons why people don't like us, but the most important one is we want them to like us in the ways we want. so we cann't feel their love if we have already fixed the pattern. the worst thing is never know we have already fixed the ways. if you can understand what I said , you share what i know , if you do not understand , then you need to learn. if you understand and do not agree, then you are my sifu
2014-09-05 17:42
Christine Goh
When people don't like you, nothing actually happens .The world doesn't end @@ correcto ! haha
2014-09-04 20:24