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Publish date: Sat, 10 Aug 2019, 06:40 PM
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Every day I get up and look through the Forbes list of the richest people in America. If I'm not there, I go to work.”  Robert Orben

I want to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life!” Henry D. Thoreau

I have retired from my original profession as a civil engineer for about a score of years ago. My former classmates of engineers in University Malaya have also one by one retiring from work, some started as early as five years ago, and some but in a minority, are still holding on in their profession, albeit at a slower pace. Hence, it is an opportune time for me to write something about the bliss and blues of retirement.

"What do you do?" is a common question asked in a social gathering. When you're working the answer is easy. Mentioning that "I'm retired" doesn’t sound good when you still look young. By the way, many people still look young when they enter the age of 60s nowadays. Then comes the inevitable, "So what do you do all day during your retirement?” That follow up question gets to the heart of the retirement dilemma for many. I'm hoping the answer isn't watching 6 hours of TV and taking 3 hours of naps. What exactly do we do to make the best use of our time, energy, and talents?

Retirement Financial Considerations

To retire happily, one must have enough money to last for twenty or more years during retirement, leading a life of his choice. There is no ultimate figure for retirement. Everyone has different needs and wants, and his retirement fund should reflect accordingly.

For me, if we have a roof over our heads free of mortgage, reasonably healthy, and children are independent, we don’t need to have tens of millions to retire. Buy meat and vegetable to cook at home. Try out recipes from the internet can even be a past time and fun thing to do. Do go out and eat and indulge yourselves a little occasionally. There are plenty of good eateries and coffee shops selling good food at reasonable or even cheap prices. Believe me, there is nowhere else in the world where food is as cheap, good and easily available in Malaysia.

Bear in mind that in your later stage of your retirement, you must take into considerations of higher medical and health care costs, and the Gremlin of inflation. If you have RM1 m saving now and anticipate that you will live another 20 years, it doesn’t mean you can hide your money under the pillow and spend RM50000 a year, as RM50000 in twenty years’ time can’t buy even half what you can buy now, not unless you invest your money in a safe instrument and can get a return of your saving higher than the rate of inflation. Don’t forget that comes with risk, the risk that you may lose your hard-earned savings meant for retirement.

If you wish to have a more flexible and better lifestyle such as doing more travelling overseas, have a better car, indulge yourself in some good food in good restaurants, better health care, you may need to have more retirement savings. But trust me, you also do not need to have tens of millions for all these enjoyments. The only thing which can kill you financially is gambling. It could become an addiction and there is no end in losing no matter how much money you have. That also include gambling in the stock market, and especially if you swing the fence, making worse by using margin finance.

What about having a lot of money left for your children? Save it, they won’t appreciate it. More so, it may spoil them, giving them the idea hard work is not necessary in life as money comes so easily. If you wish to give them a hand, help them when they are needed, in down payments for a car for work and a forced saving for the first house.

Retirement non-financial considerations

If we have enough money to lead the kind of retirement life we desire, and we have had enough of the rat race, we still must answer the concern of how we are going to spend the time. This depends on individual and each one of us should have control of his own destination.

To retire fully and happily, I believe first and foremost is one must have a hobby and interest in something. In Auckland, I have a friend who has retired and spending whole day and everyday just doing gardening. He enjoys it very much as weather is good here most of the time. One likes fishing and he bought a boat for fishing in the deep sea. The problem is getting keen mates to go with him. Another friend likes trampling. He goes around everywhere in beautiful forest reserves and national parks hiking with his group of friends. Another loves karaoke and he has two sets of karaoke machines in his house. He also likes to watch all kinds of sports in TV, golf, billiard, tennis, darts, soccer, etc. A classmate of mine goes cycling and mountain biking everywhere is Asia, including very remote places. A couple of my other friends and their wives go ballroom dancing every week.

Many retirees enjoy playing golf two or three times a week. Walking 7-8 kilometres each outing in the golf course is a good exercise. Besides, golfing can maintain one’s social life, keeping informed of things around us, and have some cheap excitement with some small bets. Going everywhere to play different courses is a joy for many keen golfers. One can really while away a lot of time, and hopefully happily and fruitfully in the golf courses.

What about travelling around the world with your spouse and seeing interesting places, beautiful sceneries and different cultures? I am fortunate that most of my former classmates in schools and university are residing in KL. Besides having frequent lunch gathering, we also used to go travelling around Malaysia, various places in South East Asia and China together, sometimes for golfing and sometimes just for sight-seeing together with spouses. That is enjoyable.

What about learning some new knowledge and skills; reading and learning investment skills from books, online resources, or even go for a course? That was what I had done, and I enjoyed it very much. What about reading books about War and Peace by Leo Tolstoy? The histories of all the old empires (Roman, Egyptian, French, German, Genghis Khan, British etc.) and about world wars, The Three kingdoms in China, The Memoir of Lee Kuan Yew, Mahathir, Robert Kuok, The Bible, the Quran, the teachings of Buddha, and some love storybooks etc. Haven’t you missed these for a long time already since started a busy career? Game for writing a book or start a blog? What about doing some social and charity works?

One other major concern of retiring is how one and his family members can cope with this sudden change. Many of you may have been working in the corporate world and mostly already in high positions in the company. Can one cope with his sudden loss of self-identity and self-worth after retirement? Would the spouse afraid that the husband will “disturb her peaceful life” at home after retirement; asking her to prepare this or that for him to eat while being a couch potato? Will he be always fighting with her to watch each other’s favourite TV programmes? Can his wife stand what other lady friends are talking about how successful their husbands’ careers or businesses are, the big car or house they have bought, but her “man” is shaking his legs and balls doing nothing at home, at this “young” age? Can he tolerate the nagging of the wife, asking him to clean this and that as she can’t stand seeing him reading newspapers or watching TV peacefully?

So before retiring, one must think about if it is acceptable with everyone if he retires, what he is going to do, discuss with family members and sort them out before he can enjoy a satisfying retirement. Failure to do so may severely strain a relationship and makes one regrets of his action later. For those who have no spouse nor children, you are luckier, you have more freedom. Friends are then the most valuable assets to have for all of us but be sure your friends who have their own family, or are still working, have time for you.

In summary, one needs not to retire if he enjoys his work and can make more money to enjoy life and leave some inheritance and a legacy (not too much) to his children, besides carrying on contributing to the society. But if he dreads to go to work every day and thinks that he may expire soon and likes to pursue other more interesting things in his bucket list, he should do some pre-retirement due diligence before retiring, financially and non-financially. I believe that if he is proactive, he can find many things to do and may find retirement life a fulfilling and satisfying one.

 

Discussions
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soojinhou

Kc, this is quite a departure from you usual articles on stocks and I've enjoyed it immensely. Happy retiring boss.

2019-08-10 20:44

FoolsGold

the point on how the wife adjust to husband always at home is very real, (the children would prob. has grown up n left home)
To minimise adjustment conflicts, i know of someone who maintain a small office near to home, where he goes to 'work' from 9am-5pm,to monitor his investments etc,as an interim step.
10/08/2019 9:51 PM

2019-08-10 21:52

InvestWin

From the curve presented by KC, about 50% will die at the age of about 85. If a person stopped working at about 65, 50% will probably die between 65 to 85. A person alive now is made up of body, soul and spirit ( the condition of our spirit is another subject that those who are keen to know can google to find out). When a person die, his body died and his/her soul leaves the dead body. Has one starts to think where his soul will go ? May I also suggest that those who retire and who do not know the answer will also start to spend time to search for the true answer. For those who are VERY SURE of the answer as to where his soul will go, I congratulate you !!!

2019-08-10 22:14

orphanage

Jaga cucu lor, coach cucu become another great investor , kikikiki

2019-08-10 22:38

Sslee

Hahahaha,
Now I found one good reason why I should continues working “how the wife adjust to husband always at home”

2019-08-10 22:38

ks55

Be like Tun M, you should retire at 94.

2019-08-11 00:15

wlchew

whatever you do don't gamble. i am one of those who lost everything after going to the casino. I was like a zombie when i gamble and loost all my savings now regretting everyday

2019-08-11 07:04

wlchew

lost

2019-08-11 07:05

miker

Anything...gambling is no good bro..winners just some....losers are a lot...winners just lucky...

2019-08-11 09:55

tah16600

This is short term competition, so not fair to KC . 5 yrs competitions more appropriate loh!

2019-08-11 10:54

trapped

So many trapped in Insas so try to talk nice?

2019-08-11 11:00

bsngpg

Thanks for good the sharing.

2019-08-11 11:05

tah16600

Trap in Insas is just temporary .Kc never ask u to speculate. Go long bro

2019-08-11 11:59

kcchongnz

Posted by wlchew > Aug 11, 2019 7:04 AM | Report Abuse
whatever you do don't gamble. i am one of those who lost everything after going to the casino. I was like a zombie when i gamble and loost all my savings now regretting everyday

Your advice through your personal experience is priceless. Hope others learn and benefit from it.

2019-08-11 15:13

kcchongnz

Posted by dadakang_chiakchitor > Aug 10, 2019 10:38 PM | Report Abuse

Jaga cucu lor,


Main main dengan cucu sedap, but not sure of jaga cucu.

2019-08-11 15:15

Icon8888

Main kuku

2019-08-11 19:26

supersaiyan3

NZ is a nice place for retirement, lots of (Asian) friends who are not doing anything also. So, just play all day long together.

It was the happiest days of my life when I was in NZ. Laugh every day.

I believe I still have my PR, not sure if they have define/interpret the meaning of
"indefinite" yet.

You know, I worked for 7 Chinese newspapers while I was there, wonder if they have finished killing each other. Just checked, 華頁 and 中文一族 are still there, amazing!!!!

2019-08-11 23:36

kcchongnz

Posted by InvestWin > Aug 10, 2019 10:14 PM | Report Abuse
From the curve presented by KC, about 50% will die at the age of about 85. If a person stopped working at about 65, 50% will probably die between 65 to 85.

Retirees, eat and do what you like, and enjoy your life to the fullest, starting now. Life is too short.

2019-08-12 17:00

cheoky

Can retire at 35-40years? Enjoy to fullest. Cos life is too short...Any advise?

2019-08-12 17:28

pussycats

Icon8888>>> Main kuku
11/08/2019 7:26 PM
=====
???
Care to explain, Icon???
Hahaha

2019-08-12 18:10

chinaman

Already retired, join Tzu Chi, gain merits and aim to be living buddha...Or, join an independent NGO- 3rd force- to change our gomen which getting worse., for future generations. wakaka

2019-08-12 18:55

kcchongnz

Posted by cheoky > Aug 12, 2019 5:28 PM | Report Abuse
Can retire at 35-40years? Enjoy to fullest. Cos life is too short...Any advise?

Tell me what is your plan to "enjoy to fullest" when you retire at 35-40 years old? What are you going to do? How many times you are going to do that?

2019-08-13 07:16

Icon8888

you not happy here ?

go back to NZ lah

then you can laugh everyday

Posted by supersaiyan3 > Aug 11, 2019 11:36 PM | Report Abuse

NZ is a nice place for retirement, lots of (Asian) friends who are not doing anything also. So, just play all day long together.

It was the happiest days of my life when I was in NZ. Laugh every day.

2019-08-13 07:48

Sslee

Hahahaha
Icon8888, why early morning already show your sour face must be all your shares go south. Just be happy and be optimistic, your shares will turn north soon.

2019-08-13 07:59

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